You must be assertive to work with clients or customers...period! I do not care what field you are in. Reason being is because you want to get your worth for the quality of service that you provide.
With that being said, when you are cuddling, it is important the the client has an understanding of the terms and you have the "right target." I am not saying prey or take advantage. I am saying the average 22 year old in college is not going to have a certain amount to cuddle for 1 or 2 hours. They barely make "Chik-fil-A salary, if that at all, so they will prey on their classmates for free cuddles in the dorm. So, if you wonder why clientele is low, maybe that is the reason.
Back on assertiveness....what does it mean?
assertive [ uh-sur-tiv ]
adjective
1. confidently aggressive or self-assured; positive: aggressive; dogmatic:
Example: He is too assertive as a salesman.
2. Having a distinctive or pronounced taste or aroma.
So, let me throw in some tips:
1. Not a "streetwalker."
Let clients know from the start that cuddling is not a sexual encounter. SEX WORK is for that (escort, call girl, stripper, prostitute, etc.), not what you do. Make sure you aren't giving off too much sexual energy. For example, you can wear cute or decent pajamas, but I would not recommend lingerie and stilettos. Already setting off on the wrong foot.
2. House Calls
DO NOT let a client come to your home for sessions. Meet only at their location (personal residence or hotel). Safety is #1 in this field (see "Not all $$ is good $$, baby" blog).
3. Pricing
If you are PRO, you can discuss pricing via messages or on your profile. Most clients ask if you are PRO because they want a FREE session and FREE is not allowed around these parts. Since I am PRO, I let them know what I charge. They either agree or can experience a session with someone else.
Make sure you are receiving funds once you arrive in the clients home. I use cash app for this or at least have money in hand. You don't want to end up doing a free session because of a misunderstanding or usury on the client’s part.
4. Not a relationship
Maybe you were not used to asking for money in a relationship or used to always depending on yourself to make things happen, but cuddle therapy is not a relationship and not the place to be silent or passive. You must inquire, ask questions, and speak up for what you want. If not, you will be doing a lot of FREE sessions with an empty wallet, and gas fumes.
Be smart, and safe cuddling!
Love,
Porsha
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