Hello lover! 💋 The new Lingerie Supervisor! 👙 So, this post will be somewhat of a continuing to “Pivot, Don’t Panic” or “Don’t Panic, Pivot” (tomato, tomatoe). Yes, I have lots of experience in the field of HR, and plethora of other things. But the way this job market is set up, some things are not hitting like they should. Sometimes, pivoting is getting out of your own way, and so I did. So, sometime almost 2 weeks ago, I was a little frustrated because it was job rejectio

Nothing can stop me…literally! Despite how I was raised, I have learned over the years that, “You can’t be fair in an unfair world.” Whew chile!!! I was PISSED last night. Now mind you, I’ve been a PRO cuddle therapist for 6 years and proud of that. My cousin wanted to support and share that not only I cuddle, but that I’m a coach. I also had possible clients in my queue, since I’m new to the area. When I went to go back on my page…MY ACCOUNT WAS closed! This is where pivot

Hey ya’ll! 👋🏾 At the end of 2019, I heard about cuddle therapy and thought it was a joke, but I was so serious. I did A LOT of research, was able to gain clients, but also coach other women. At the end of the day, it’s became a lucrative side hustle for me. 💵 Studies have shown that cuddle therapy can help 🤗: ✅ Support stress relief. ✅ Nervous system regulation. ✅ Emotional grounding. ✅ Deeper sense of calm and presence. Whether you’re navigating a busy lifestyle, emotion

Now, the picture I add to this post will NOT show an untouchable state of mind. You know why? I want everyone to know that I’ve been through sh*t that almost had me at rock bottom. A lot of my spiraling had to do with generational curses, mindsets, and how I grew up. It takes strategy to handle corporate America, not just earn your Master’s and you will just land a 6 figure job. It takes strategy to vet for the right relationship. I’ve put the cart before the horse plenty of

Have you ever felt called to help others through connection, compassion, and emotional support? ❤️‍🩹 As for being a cuddle therapist for 6 years now, I’ve had plenty of experience in the field to pass my knowledge and help YOU become successful if this is a field that you might be interested in. My 1:1 coaching program is designed for individuals who want to step into the cuddle therapy field with confidence, professionalism, and purpose. I guide you through building not jus

In the wise words of Real Talk Kim, “Don’t Panic, Pivot.” 📈 Ever since I heard that sermon while having cabin fever with my daughter due to the snow storms here in the Carolinas, I really had to be put to the test of not being moved by what I see 👀. With all of that being said, I got tested, and I mean TESTED. I received 3 job rejections in the past few days and I interviewed for all of them. The one today I was supposed to do a final interview tomorrow and they went and hi

So, last year and the beginning of this year, we should have been able to identify all of the fake MOFO’s and where they belong in our lives, the graveyard in your mind, or distance with a ten foot pole, or just unbothered. If you are in the “not sure” stage for your own reasons, it’s all good. One day at a time. 😊 Last year was the Year of The Snake 🐍 (which is still going on until 2/17), which involved shedding old skin, but also finding out the real from the fake.

Hello everyone! It has been yyeeeaaarrrsss since I’ve been on here, but I’m ready to light this train up. Damn…almost 5 years…wow! Let’s get into the basics of current events. So where should I even start?… So, I no longer live in Vegas (boo-hoo 😭). I will not go into exact details, but a lot of things occurred, I got overwhelmed, and needed to take a different direction, which is near Charlotte, NC at the moment. I will revisit permanent stay in Vegas maybe around Spring or

COVID-19 is still out here in these streets, but you also have to look out for YOU in other ways. I currently started my new job (Human Resources position), which has been good. They have been following COVID-19 policies to the “tee.“ I have to stay cautious when I travel to Dallas mid-month for training. I still do cuddle therapy on the side, because it’s a good hustle, but let’s get to the real bitty gritty of this post. So I had a ”possible” wanting a session. It went from

So besides taking this brief hiatus from the kiddo, my side hustles (readings and bath products - Etsy store and IG page are UP! Yay! 😀) have been going well and cuddle therapy is slowly starting back up. I had 2 clients drop out due to me NOT wanting to sleep with them or engage in other sexual activities, but you win some, you lose some, right? I will not sacrifice my self respect and dignity for some money. I am getting back into Corporate (help me Lord 🙏), but the benef

This Scorpio Full Moon has been OFF THE CHAIN! Talk about transformation and death to all the bs. I swear people will really try and underestimate you. Maybe it’s their own insecurity and personal issues, but I honestly do not have time for it. During this time, people can be focused on saving money, paying bills off, ideas for a new business, investments, etc, but people are worried about what other people are doing. Even if you didn’t want to work on a business or thing

What a better time than this to support your personal goals? I’m all for it and you should too. So, my video for Level 2 (Cuddle Comfort Professional Cuddle Therapy Certification) got approved and they will be adding some clips of it on their YouTube channel! Yay! This might seem like a small feat for some, but it’s a big deal to me. Since we are on lock down, I contact my clients to check in, message the “possibles”, and will continuing working on self development. I just

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