Hello lover! 💋 The new Lingerie Supervisor! 👙 So, this post will be somewhat of a continuing to “Pivot, Don’t Panic” or “Don’t Panic, Pivot” (tomato, tomatoe). Yes, I have lots of experience in the field of HR, and plethora of other things. But the way this job market is set up, some things are not hitting like they should. Sometimes, pivoting is getting out of your own way, and so I did. So, sometime almost 2 weeks ago, I was a little frustrated because it was job rejectio

Nothing can stop me…literally! Despite how I was raised, I have learned over the years that, “You can’t be fair in an unfair world.” Whew chile!!! I was PISSED last night. Now mind you, I’ve been a PRO cuddle therapist for 6 years and proud of that. My cousin wanted to support and share that not only I cuddle, but that I’m a coach. I also had possible clients in my queue, since I’m new to the area. When I went to go back on my page…MY ACCOUNT WAS closed! This is where pivot

Hey ya’ll! 👋🏾 At the end of 2019, I heard about cuddle therapy and thought it was a joke, but I was so serious. I did A LOT of research, was able to gain clients, but also coach other women. At the end of the day, it’s became a lucrative side hustle for me. 💵 Studies have shown that cuddle therapy can help 🤗: ✅ Support stress relief. ✅ Nervous system regulation. ✅ Emotional grounding. ✅ Deeper sense of calm and presence. Whether you’re navigating a busy lifestyle, emotion

Now, the picture I add to this post will NOT show an untouchable state of mind. You know why? I want everyone to know that I’ve been through sh*t that almost had me at rock bottom. A lot of my spiraling had to do with generational curses, mindsets, and how I grew up. It takes strategy to handle corporate America, not just earn your Master’s and you will just land a 6 figure job. It takes strategy to vet for the right relationship. I’ve put the cart before the horse plenty of

Have you ever felt called to help others through connection, compassion, and emotional support? ❤️‍🩹 As for being a cuddle therapist for 6 years now, I’ve had plenty of experience in the field to pass my knowledge and help YOU become successful if this is a field that you might be interested in. My 1:1 coaching program is designed for individuals who want to step into the cuddle therapy field with confidence, professionalism, and purpose. I guide you through building not jus

In the wise words of Real Talk Kim, “Don’t Panic, Pivot.” 📈 Ever since I heard that sermon while having cabin fever with my daughter due to the snow storms here in the Carolinas, I really had to be put to the test of not being moved by what I see 👀. With all of that being said, I got tested, and I mean TESTED. I received 3 job rejections in the past few days and I interviewed for all of them. The one today I was supposed to do a final interview tomorrow and they went and hi

You have the right to simply say NO, but also know your worth as a job seeker and professional. Basically, I’m good enough to work only in sales, which isn’t my field, but left and right rejections for W-2 jobs in my field? Something is wrong! 🚫❌🚫 I just got off of an orientation and sat in a whole hour meeting about a role that did not meet the salary expectations. $60k a year (which was listed on the job description) versus performance based aka SALES are two differe

Gems were dropped upon me about 2 days ago 💎. Sometimes it’s the little things we overlook. With that being said, STOP using these 3 words…..❌🚫❌🚫 1. “I wish….” Wishing is another word for doubt and has no faith whatsoever backed up behind it. It can cause your actual desires to be sabotaged before you even have a head start. Instead, say, “I declare financial abundance, job opportunity, promotion, etc. over my life.” 2. “I can’t or I cannot.” I use this word as slang when

Cookie season is HERE & let the real supporters STAND UP! 💚🤎💚🤎💚 Thanks to all of the local and out of state supporters that made this possible for Shalom - California, New Mexico, D.C., Kentucky, Louisiana, NC, SC, Florida, & WV. 💯🙌🏾💯🙌🏾 Shalom has officially passed her 100% milestone in sales!! We shall go above and beyond until Cookie Season is over, which is March 29th. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 We donated 2 of our own boxes to random strangers and made their day! That’s what

So, last year and the beginning of this year, we should have been able to identify all of the fake MOFO’s and where they belong in our lives, the graveyard in your mind, or distance with a ten foot pole, or just unbothered. If you are in the “not sure” stage for your own reasons, it’s all good. One day at a time. 😊 Last year was the Year of The Snake 🐍 (which is still going on until 2/17), which involved shedding old skin, but also finding out the real from the fake.

Hello everyone! It has been yyeeeaaarrrsss since I’ve been on here, but I’m ready to light this train up. Damn…almost 5 years…wow! Let’s get into the basics of current events. So where should I even start?… So, I no longer live in Vegas (boo-hoo 😭). I will not go into exact details, but a lot of things occurred, I got overwhelmed, and needed to take a different direction, which is near Charlotte, NC at the moment. I will revisit permanent stay in Vegas maybe around Spring or

So….I am back again. (*By the way….R.A.T.M. stands for Rage Against the Machine). The end of 2020 and this whole year has been INSANE! COVID has flipped everything upside down, but I’m still persevering. I am still the “side hustle queen”, but I’m seeing more of people’s true colors and my spiritual journey has been stronger. Also, I am bolder about my OWN belief systems and ideologies. It got to a point where spirituality or religion did NOT matter to me and I took a br

So...I’ve been back from Dallas and been in “Sin City”‘ working for Amazon + being mommy. I’m tired of people asking if I moved to Texas. I hate moving and moving all the time shows instability is present, so NO. Still in Vegas baby! It’s been very.....interesting lately with my life though. My daughter is in a SOLID daycare and loves it. Did I mention it’s also 24 hours? So if I want to have some “me“ time, I can. And...its right around the corner from my apartment. Yay for

I am back y’all for another blog. I have been super busy due to my new job (lots of training; working from home) and I had my sister come for a few days to help me organize my apartment before heading out. I am currently packing as we speak and have some research to do for a HR project tomorrow (ugh). So far, Amazon has been cool. The training is engaging and it helps me understand the culture better, but it’s a lot. As for my daughter, she is with my family due to the unreli

In my opinion Will & August are sexy MF’s, but Jada and Will do have a weird arrangement. To each it’s own, but I could NOT share my husband with another woman or vice versa. August was young “peen” that got caught up in the mix. He was looking like someone’s Auntie in that damn interview. 😂 He seemed nervous and his emotions were all mixed, but he was also kissing and telling. Virgo dudes crumble under pressure and start singing like a canary after awhile. I cannot. Au

COVID-19 is still out here in these streets, but you also have to look out for YOU in other ways. I currently started my new job (Human Resources position), which has been good. They have been following COVID-19 policies to the “tee.“ I have to stay cautious when I travel to Dallas mid-month for training. I still do cuddle therapy on the side, because it’s a good hustle, but let’s get to the real bitty gritty of this post. So I had a ”possible” wanting a session. It went from

***Disclaimer: The book used as a reference for this post is ONLY a reference. Cuddle therapy is not sex work, but some issues that revolve around it are similar to sex work (fear, safety, shame/stigma, anger, and envy). Well, not really, but, let’s get into it. So, as a cuddle therapist, I have come to realize a lot of my clients are insecure due to their age, weight, or aesthetics. Therefore, because of how they feel, the will surely project onto you. When this happen

So besides taking this brief hiatus from the kiddo, my side hustles (readings and bath products - Etsy store and IG page are UP! Yay! 😀) have been going well and cuddle therapy is slowly starting back up. I had 2 clients drop out due to me NOT wanting to sleep with them or engage in other sexual activities, but you win some, you lose some, right? I will not sacrifice my self respect and dignity for some money. I am getting back into Corporate (help me Lord 🙏), but the benef

Hey everyone! I’m back to touch down on this blog. I‘ve been running back and forth to California and trying to handle the home front. I decided to send my daughter off for a week to handle some personal things and have “me“ time. It might seem selfish, but it is ssssssooo important to have that mental break and solace. You will burn yourself to the ground if you don’t and I started to feel that way. Waking up crying first thing in the morning is never good, so I took that ti

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