Hello lover! 💋 The new Lingerie Supervisor! 👙 So, this post will be somewhat of a continuing to “Pivot, Don’t Panic” or “Don’t Panic, Pivot” (tomato, tomatoe). Yes, I have lots of experience in the field of HR, and plethora of other things. But the way this job market is set up, some things are not hitting like they should. Sometimes, pivoting is getting out of your own way, and so I did. So, sometime almost 2 weeks ago, I was a little frustrated because it was job rejectio

Nothing can stop me…literally! Despite how I was raised, I have learned over the years that, “You can’t be fair in an unfair world.” Whew chile!!! I was PISSED last night. Now mind you, I’ve been a PRO cuddle therapist for 6 years and proud of that. My cousin wanted to support and share that not only I cuddle, but that I’m a coach. I also had possible clients in my queue, since I’m new to the area. When I went to go back on my page…MY ACCOUNT WAS closed! This is where pivot

Hey ya’ll! 👋🏾 At the end of 2019, I heard about cuddle therapy and thought it was a joke, but I was so serious. I did A LOT of research, was able to gain clients, but also coach other women. At the end of the day, it’s became a lucrative side hustle for me. 💵 Studies have shown that cuddle therapy can help 🤗: ✅ Support stress relief. ✅ Nervous system regulation. ✅ Emotional grounding. ✅ Deeper sense of calm and presence. Whether you’re navigating a busy lifestyle, emotion

Now, the picture I add to this post will NOT show an untouchable state of mind. You know why? I want everyone to know that I’ve been through sh*t that almost had me at rock bottom. A lot of my spiraling had to do with generational curses, mindsets, and how I grew up. It takes strategy to handle corporate America, not just earn your Master’s and you will just land a 6 figure job. It takes strategy to vet for the right relationship. I’ve put the cart before the horse plenty of

Have you ever felt called to help others through connection, compassion, and emotional support? ❤️‍🩹 As for being a cuddle therapist for 6 years now, I’ve had plenty of experience in the field to pass my knowledge and help YOU become successful if this is a field that you might be interested in. My 1:1 coaching program is designed for individuals who want to step into the cuddle therapy field with confidence, professionalism, and purpose. I guide you through building not jus

In the wise words of Real Talk Kim, “Don’t Panic, Pivot.” 📈 Ever since I heard that sermon while having cabin fever with my daughter due to the snow storms here in the Carolinas, I really had to be put to the test of not being moved by what I see 👀. With all of that being said, I got tested, and I mean TESTED. I received 3 job rejections in the past few days and I interviewed for all of them. The one today I was supposed to do a final interview tomorrow and they went and hi

You have the right to simply say NO, but also know your worth as a job seeker and professional. Basically, I’m good enough to work only in sales, which isn’t my field, but left and right rejections for W-2 jobs in my field? Something is wrong! 🚫❌🚫 I just got off of an orientation and sat in a whole hour meeting about a role that did not meet the salary expectations. $60k a year (which was listed on the job description) versus performance based aka SALES are two differe

Hello everyone! It has been yyeeeaaarrrsss since I’ve been on here, but I’m ready to light this train up. Damn…almost 5 years…wow! Let’s get into the basics of current events. So where should I even start?… So, I no longer live in Vegas (boo-hoo 😭). I will not go into exact details, but a lot of things occurred, I got overwhelmed, and needed to take a different direction, which is near Charlotte, NC at the moment. I will revisit permanent stay in Vegas maybe around Spring or

So...I’ve been back from Dallas and been in “Sin City”‘ working for Amazon + being mommy. I’m tired of people asking if I moved to Texas. I hate moving and moving all the time shows instability is present, so NO. Still in Vegas baby! It’s been very.....interesting lately with my life though. My daughter is in a SOLID daycare and loves it. Did I mention it’s also 24 hours? So if I want to have some “me“ time, I can. And...its right around the corner from my apartment. Yay for

***Disclaimer: The book used as a reference for this post is ONLY a reference. Cuddle therapy is not sex work, but some issues that revolve around it are similar to sex work (fear, safety, shame/stigma, anger, and envy). I was so honored to meet Amber Rose for her women’s event and the slut walk!! I learned so much about feminism, but also was in an environment where women and LGBT can be more unified. I say this because in cuddle therapy, you might meet some trans clients/cu

I can’t help the drive and ambition I have due to being a Capricorn, but I use it and make it work. I believe that no WOMAN should be broke....period!!!! I also believe a woman having her own money, car, and place are protection. You can weed out a lot of counterfeit men that are users and pretending to be providers. Back to the topic at hand before I get on a dating campaign. Guess what people???? This is the year of entrepreneurship and it’s time to get your a** up

On a good note or foot compared to the previous post, I had my very first cuddle therapy consultation (mentorship) and it was so much fun! The client was very pleasant and I was surprised how much information I had regarding cuddle therapy. I think she will start on a good foot and she’s in a good location for sure. I will follow up with her weekly regarding her site platform and if anyone is close to her, I’ll send them her way. See, it’s not about competing or being better

When I was in the U.S. Army, I was the girl in my unit with the most perfumes. I received a “Best Clean Room” award and I remember my 1SG saying, “Damn, don’t burn the room down with all of this perfume. Never seen so much perfume in my life!” 😂🤷🏾‍♀️ Scent is EVERYTHING people!!! I cannot walk around smelling like warm garbage truck juice or strong onions. I also like to smell different from everyone else. Yeah, I wear Gucci or Dior, but something like a signature scent th

* **Disclaimer: The book used as a reference for this post is ONLY a reference. Cuddle therapy is not sex work, but some issues that revolve around it are similar to sex work (fear, safety, shame/stigma, anger, and envy). Even though cuddle therapy is something new here in the States, it first started in Japan 🇯🇵 , which is a country a bit more liberal compared to America when it comes to the areas of cuddling, or even sex work. Japan’s technology and lifestyle is highly fo

During this pandemic and shelter-in-place, I have been really business minded; focused on my self-development and “side hustles.“ I had something today that should have knocked me down, but I got right back up. I had an interview today for a Leadership Development Manager. Due to my HR background, I was ready for the challenge. I did the interview/company overview phone call and it was pretty much for selling insurance. I do not like sales work at all. I don’t want to recruit

You will have clients that confuse cuddling with dating, which means 9 times out of 10, they have gotten their way involving sex or other things. “Excuse me sir...this is Jamba Juice and we don’t sell coffee. Starbucks is down the street. Thanks!” 😀🤷🏾‍♀️ With that being said, I had a “freelance possible” (freelance means you didn’t meet the ”possible” from a cuddle site) contact me via IG. He wanted to do a virtual session at 1am. First off, I need a 24-48 hour notice an

Bug-a-boo by Destiny’s Child, Writings on the Wall, 1999 *I do not own rights to this image. Ok y’all....so another pet peeve of mine regarding cuddling are the “lookey-loo’s.” They peak at my profile every single week, but don’t respond to any messages regarding a session. Now I don’t annoy or bother them, but if you are visiting my profile, something caught your attention. I will gladly be professional, respectful, and give you a nice greeting and see if you are interested

I am endeavoring in a new venture regarding cuddle therapy. At my last place of employment, I would mentor veterans before and after their military transition to find employment. I miss my veterans and talking to them. I enjoyed making an amazing connection and assisting them with their transitional needs. Since I have experience in this area, I can assist others interested in this field. I understand I give a lot of essential and useful information on this blog, but I c

It’s funny because a few weeks ago I broke the news to my parents that I’m a cuddle therapist. I discussed exactly what I do, pros + cons, and that most of all, I’m safe. Overall, my parents want me to continue to pursue what I studied in college, which is Human Resources Management, but as you can see with this pandemic, no one is really hiring. And I feel like I’m honestly too pretty for HR. I get so much sh*t for my looks. My mother thought it was genius and is proud of my

Folks in the “cuddling” community are going ape sh*t due to no physical contact. So, a lot of therapists have decided to handle virtual or phone sessions. I guess “cuddlees” or clients aren’t having it. I respect a client’s preference regarding physical touch vs. technology, but at the same time....look around you. They hype their own selves up by looking at profiles of people they can’t even touch. I had a “possible” tell me his time and money are not worth it regarding a vi