Hello lover! 💋 The new Lingerie Sales Associate! Glad to be here! 👙 So, this post will be somewhat of a continuing to “Pivot, Don’t Panic” or “Don’t Panic, Pivot” (tomato, tomatoe). Yes, I have lots of experience in the field of HR, and plethora of other things. But the way this job market is set up, some things are not hitting like they should. Sometimes, pivoting is getting out of your own way, and so I did. So, sometime almost 2 weeks ago, I was a little frustrated beca

Now, the picture I add to this post will NOT show an untouchable state of mind. You know why? I want everyone to know that I’ve been through sh*t that almost had me at rock bottom. A lot of my spiraling had to do with generational curses, mindsets, and how I grew up. It takes strategy to handle corporate America, not just earn your Master’s and you will just land a 6 figure job. It takes strategy to vet for the right relationship. I’ve put the cart before the horse plenty of

(Continuation to “Lames”) I wish I could say that I finally have love cornered against the wall. or the fact that I’m absolutely...

So, I decided to go ahead and get rid of OK Cupid, Christian Mingle, Tagged, etc. I needed some breathing room from the carnal demands of...

“You said hello to me I said hello to you You ask me where I’m from I asked you what you do You some how intrigued me I thought you...

So…I would like to start and say….I AM not an ANGEL by no means. During my crazy times in the Army, I partied a lot and did plenty of...

Some days and nights, I feel the worst, and sometimes I feel at my best. Tonight though…I definitely need to get some things off my...

As I grow older, I realize that everything in life isn’t as what it seems. We go through weird phases every 5 years or so….I guess…..At...

On the Straight and Narrow Path It’s good to be back! I intended to write this blog when I hit one year, which was October 2014, but I...

So….I’ve been on my new job for almost 90 days and have less than 50 credits left before I graduate college. Everything around me has...

WHAT’S NEW?!?!? I’ve been away for too long! OMG! I am doing well ladies and gentleman. I’ve been on my job as an HR Tech for 30 days and...

May 28, 2014 “Men can only be happy when they do not assume that the object of life is happiness.”  – George Orwell Why I am...

“Dear Self” May 2013 Tijera, I wrote this letter to make you think about the things you have been going through lately. Right now, you...

Do 4 Love August 11, 2014 By: Tijera Slack Wow! I had a “Blast from the past!” I had a gym/spa membership while I was stationed in North...

“In My Humble Opinion (Pt. 1), “Your so THOTFUL” September 1, 2013 “You’re so bad [boy], your’re so awful…We aren’t in this for...

No Means NO!!! July 25, 2014 I’ve always been the type of woman to be fair and equitable to all, especially in the “dating” arena. If I...

Can’t Please Everyone August 22, 2006 As I get older and become wiser through positive or negative experiences, I release not everyone...

Beauty Product of the Week, July 20th – 26th 2014 ULTA, http://www.ulta.com Too Faced Natural Eyes Collection Item #: 2273054 $36.00 I...

CHIVALRY: FOUND DEAD!!!!! OMG!!! July 21, 2014 Are there any men still purchasing a bouquet of flowers or even  stars from the sky  for...

The Game: July 21, 2014 In the “wonderful” world of dating, males and females alike play tons of games, but we as females need to be much...