“In My Humble Opinion (Pt. 1), “Your so THOTFUL”
September 1, 2013
“You’re so bad [boy], your’re so awful…We aren’t in this for commitment…”
“Thotful” by Drake (2014).
“HELL is other people”
Jean-Paul Sartre
The real question is…why are MEN the way they are? I guess I need to explain my question some more…lol.
Some say, well most men would say they are simple and easy to understand, but I beg to differ. Lying and having excuses for EVERYTHING is unacceptable. I shouldn’t expect this behavior from grown and consenting adults. These days, men are not even honest or straight forward about friends with benefits.
“An excuse is a reason stuffed with a lie.” – Rihanna
When I first joined the military, lost my virginity in 2006, and got to the point where relationships were overrated, this deal right here (“fwb”) was the best thing smokin’. Now the friends with benefits ordeal is tainted, complicated, and becoming extinct like chivalry. The best way I can describe it now would be more like a freakin’ “situationship” with catching feelings and broken hearts. Guys “smashing” once and never hearing a word from them EVER again (some instances, they are #$%&ing your friend or your apartment neighbor!! They know it was a a-hole move, so they disappear. #TRUE STORY). The KICKER for me is a guy wanting you to be a “fwb” but is married with children! How are you going to lie about being single when your not?!?! WOW!
I thought sex was suppose to be fun and drama-free?!?!? It’s sad that one can get played without desiring a relationship. Just smash , go home, then I call you (or you call) again next week for another round.
WTF is wrong with this world?!?!?!?
If I wanted to have sex or “smash” one time and thought fondly about the experience, I could of had a one night stand and been done with it…JESUS!
Best believe, I have stories I can pull out of my butt-hole of the b.s. I have went through in the name of SEX and a damn CLIMAX! I started to question myself about my sexual performance, body type, hygiene, etc. I decided I cannot let someone’s issues make me insecure. Some guys just want to conquer, score, or have ulterior motives (why the hidden bull #@$%???). It’s THEIR PROBLEM, not mine.
“Situationship” Song:
“Catch No Feelings” by Drake feat. Andre’ 3000 (2014)
At the end of the day, I feel like I do not need the b.s. in my life. This chick right here is binding her #%$@ (kitty kat) up like a chastity belt.
I value myself way too much, no matter how many sexual needs, urges, or desires I have from here on out. #TEAM TIJERA
Today’s definitive conclusion about humanity…..
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