I've say this all of the time, you have to have the heart and mindset to be a professional cuddle therapist. So, how do you know if this industry is for you?
1. Are you affectionate?
If you do not like giving hugs or being affectionate in any type of way, this is not the field for you. You just aren't giving out hugs. You are connecting with others on a whole different level, which can be more intimate than actual sex. You have to be very empathetic to your clients' and their needs, whether they are autistic, a war veteran with PTSD, or a 70 year old man that wants affection and touch.
2. Are you assertive?
You need to have excellent communication skills and assertiveness to hang in this industry. Reason being is because you need to make sure you can satisfy the client in the most professional way and also speak up if unprofessional behavior occurs. Your safety also matters when it comes to cuddling because, at the end of the day, you are dealing with strangers, until you build a rapport.
Lastly, you need to be assertive with prices for your services. There are clients' that want "free cuddles" or try and low ball for the cheapest price. How can you make your own uniqueness and personality marketable? Are you compassionate, caring, loving, an excellent communicator, creative, etc.? Traits matter in this field, and being assertive is one of the most important.
3. Are you flexible?
Can you be available when a client needs you? Yes, some professional cuddle therapist might work a main job or whatever the case may be, but at the same time, you must know how to use time management properly. If not, you will be late and it doesn't look good or your reputation at all.
4. Got "Heaux" Tendencies? NOT ALLOWED!
If you think professional cuddling is a way to sneak escort or prostitution in, you are WRONGLY mistaken and in the wrong field. Now, there are clients' that will challenge you to see if they can sleep with you, but your clients' will drop like flies or your job description will change from a cuddle therapist to a "heaux" real quick. If you deal with predominantly male clients, men will always be men. Once they get it, that's it, unless it's to their benefit.
5. Are you passionate or money hungry?
Cuddling is a compassionate industry, but also like a ministry. If you do not have the heart and compassion for it, your clients' will see it an it won't look good for you. I had a client tell me that when he went to the bathroom to change and the cuddle therapist took his money off the dresser and left. That is a shame and I hope she gets her karma for that. That is unacceptable, unprofessional, and no one should be treated that way.
In conclusion, just the five tips alone should be a self assessment on whether this industry is for you or not. Remember to always be honest and true to yourself. You want to always make sure you have passion with whatever you embark.
Love,
Porsha : )
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