Don't let the photo for this blog fool you, but you aren't considered a “heaux" in this industry unless you are being an imposter actor/actress (another blog on that topic). I actually bought this mug because someone joked about me being a cuddle "heaux", so I can sit back and laugh about it.
Now back to the real "gin and juice" of this post, I have a similar post like this available, but I will say it again because a cuddle colleague I know (not on a site platform) told me some things he does (consensual “favors”) for his female clients and receives payment. I am not judging him at all and we are over the age of 18+ (I hope so), BUT......I do not advise YOU as a therapist to sleep with or do sexual acts for your clients. In the words of a wise and drunk sergeant I knew in the Army, "When you f*ck the help, you become the help." The realest sh*t I've ever heard.
As for female cuddle therapists and speaking for myself, having sex with a client takes the fun out of the job, takes YOU out of your actual purpose and scope of work, and lastly, you have a big possibility of losing clientele down the line. Either sex gets old for the client or if you don't want to do any "sexual favors", it's off with your head and money. Most importantly, your client can retaliate and report you if you have a platform on a site (or even authorities regarding acts of prostitution), which means your profile is banned/blocked or your up sh*ttier creeks. 🙊💩
We all know at the end of the day, "men will be men", but protect your reputation at ALL COSTS! Men will always try to push your boundaries and dangle the carrot to the horse, but don't fall for the "okey doke". Of course men get turned on during sessions or want to masturbate in front of you, but have some dignity for yourself. I think male cuddle therapists should protect themselves as well (Hello....#MeToo movement).
I had my very first client request for me to sit in front of him and watch him masturbate after a session and I declined the offer. Again, I AM a cuddle therapist, not a sex worker. I will not change my course for extra dollars (maybe my HR background and upbringing have a lot to do with it, but sorry and NOT SORRY). He has not called me again for a session and I don't care. At least he paid well and left a 5 star review on one of my platforms.
In conclusion, I think it's not worth it in the long run -- no matter how much money they want to offer. This is a service to heal and should be treated as such. Let's stay in a proper categories people. If you are a domme, stripper, escort, or actual prostitute, use other platforms to display your work and don't ruin it for the rest of us trying to do right out here.
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Safe cuddling! : )
Love,
Porsha
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