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Writer's picturePorsha Foxx

May The Young Be "Free"



I made comments about this in my past blogs, but I will say it again to anyone new into the cuddle industry...GOOD LUCK ON GETTING YOUNG CLIENTS. If they are under 40, they play a lot of games. To be honest, I think they just want attention and don't want to get on a dating site. They think they will get STD FREE booty or a free date floating around on a cuddle site. POF and Tinder has plenty of opportunities for free dates, free cuddles (really known for free cuddle messages), and free a**.

I get paid over here. $$$$$$$$

I literally had a "possible" contact me and state, "I am not looking for a cuddle therapist, but a long-term relationship." Ummm....that's like going to Jamba Juice and asking for coffee. You are on the wrong site buddy. You can go over to BK and have it your way. Thanks!

Today, I had a young client (35 years old) contact me and asked if I was available today. I stated yes and that I needed to know what time and how long would his session be. He did not respond and I reminded him that I have other clients so he needs to decide what he wants to do. He literally stated, "Okay." Wait, what? That should have been either an, "I will book or I change my mind" response. He seemed really rude and cocky. Again, attention whore at its best. "OK" is not the proper response. I swear some people are so dumb or ignorant. The young men will ghost like the quickness as if they are winning a game of Pac Man or something. It's all about ego and getting attention with them. Most of them are shocked how a cuddle therapist can get paid so much without having sexual relations, so it angers them. "Kill the cheerleader" syndrome. BYE! This cheerleader will live on and cheer!

This is where asking for a deposit comes into play. If you meet a word of mouth or street client, they need your cash app or pay pal to send a $50 non-refundable deposit. If they cancel or no-show, well, you still get paid instead of making personal arrangements for a client that never comes through. Also, it will test to see where their head is. If they are booking from the site, they can send a $50 proposal. No deposit, no booking for a session.

And you don't need to send a "possible" damn pictures to see if they want to book. You should have pictures on your profile page of your designated site. Direct them there or send them your payment information. Most "million questioner" scammers do this and the majority are under 40 years of age.

I try so hard not to even get into the point of discriminating, but I'm at the point of not responding to younger clients (under 40 -- if they are 19...OMG....go mow a lawn!) because it's a waste of time. They try to treat the site like a damn dating site and I am a business. I have things to do like money moves and personal affairs. You have the right to refuse service to anyone.


Happy & safe cuddling!


Love,


Porsha


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mimivelour
Mar 06, 2020

Great tips and straight to the point. Thank you.

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