During this pandemic and shelter-in-place, I have been really business minded; focused on my self-development and “side hustles.“ I had something today that should have knocked me down, but I got right back up. I had an interview today for a Leadership Development Manager. Due to my HR background, I was ready for the challenge. I did the interview/company overview phone call and it was pretty much for selling insurance. I do not like sales work at all. I don’t want to recruit

You will have clients that confuse cuddling with dating, which means 9 times out of 10, they have gotten their way involving sex or other things. “Excuse me sir...this is Jamba Juice and we don’t sell coffee. Starbucks is down the street. Thanks!” 😀🤷🏾‍♀️ With that being said, I had a “freelance possible” (freelance means you didn’t meet the ”possible” from a cuddle site) contact me via IG. He wanted to do a virtual session at 1am. First off, I need a 24-48 hour notice an

Bug-a-boo by Destiny’s Child, Writings on the Wall, 1999 *I do not own rights to this image. Ok y’all....so another pet peeve of mine regarding cuddling are the “lookey-loo’s.” They peak at my profile every single week, but don’t respond to any messages regarding a session. Now I don’t annoy or bother them, but if you are visiting my profile, something caught your attention. I will gladly be professional, respectful, and give you a nice greeting and see if you are interested

So, this whole Pandemic has been going on and my clients have been blowing my phone up. They are realizing physical touch is needed and truly missed. I understand how they feel, but I’m definitely not putting my life or daughter’s on the line for a session, so they must all wait. As for Virtual sessions, I had a real cool one today from a long time associate I know (military affiliation). He gets stressed out when certain things occur either in his own life or on th

I am endeavoring in a new venture regarding cuddle therapy. At my last place of employment, I would mentor veterans before and after their military transition to find employment. I miss my veterans and talking to them. I enjoyed making an amazing connection and assisting them with their transitional needs. Since I have experience in this area, I can assist others interested in this field. I understand I give a lot of essential and useful information on this blog, but I c

“If you want the best, I’ma need a check.” ~Qveen Herby 💕✨🌸💰 I seen this post on IG and fell in love with it! I don’t go off a client’s budget when it comes to being a cuddle therapist. My price is my price. Now you can have a session for less time that fits your budget, but my hourly price stays the same. The experience and service I provide is worth every dime and if you don’t think so, sail on honey. ✌🏾 Here’s a message I received today from a “possible” and it

It’s funny because a few weeks ago I broke the news to my parents that I’m a cuddle therapist. I discussed exactly what I do, pros + cons, and that most of all, I’m safe. Overall, my parents want me to continue to pursue what I studied in college, which is Human Resources Management, but as you can see with this pandemic, no one is really hiring. And I feel like I’m honestly too pretty for HR. I get so much sh*t for my looks. My mother thought it was genius and is proud of my

Ok, Lord....that was quick! I just talked about 4/4 and praying for our world, nation, and cities. I did not appreciate my city having...

So, I’m normally not a morning person, but my black behind woke up bright and early to pray for the world, this nation, “Sin City”, and...

Folks in the “cuddling” community are going ape sh*t due to no physical contact. So, a lot of therapists have decided to handle virtual or phone sessions. I guess “cuddlees” or clients aren’t having it. I respect a client’s preference regarding physical touch vs. technology, but at the same time....look around you. They hype their own selves up by looking at profiles of people they can’t even touch. I had a “possible” tell me his time and money are not worth it regarding a vi

While the whole entire world is still in panic, this is the best time to focus on your self development. Again, I am not scared or...

Honestly, I’m so ready for this to be over with. I want my normal life again and want to cuddle for sure. Besides being a cuddle therapist as a job, it does bringa me comfort. But, my life and my daughter’s does matter. I wouldn’t want anything to happen to us during this time. A client contacted me today and stated he just recovered from surgery and looks forward to a session soon. We also talked about how to overcome death and other topics. I have been keeping with all of m

Let’s get off cuddle therapy for a bit and talk about immunity. I just found out a close family member caught the “Brewski” and prayers...

DISCLAIMER: This post is not making fun of homeless people (past or present), especially during these times with the ”Brewski” going around. Back in 2016, I finished my undergraduate education and I worked on Skid Row in Los Angeles as an HR Technician for a community outreach center to assist the homeless. The things I saw were horrifying and disheartening. I was always grateful and blessed for the smallest things in my life, even if I was going through a hard time.

Do you think your time is valuable as a cuddle professional? If so, you should require a deposit for your cuddle services (especially new clients). Clients, especially MEN have a HIGH probability of wasting your time. I learned a valuable lesson about business and clients a month ago. I scheduled an eyebrow(s) retouch with my favorite artist here in town. I sent her a deposit before our session. My toddler made me late for my appointment (terrible 2’s tantrum), so I had t

Don't let the photo for this blog fool you, but you aren't considered a “heaux" in this industry unless you are being an imposter actor/actress (another blog on that topic). I actually bought this mug because someone joked about me being a cuddle "heaux", so I can sit back and laugh about it. Now back to the real "gin and juice" of this post, I have a similar post like this available, but I will say it again because a cuddle colleague I know (not on a site platform) told

Hey to my cuddle bunnies! I have been hiding out, cleaning, and visiting family out of state, so I haven't been able to blog lately, but I'M BACK! I didn't forget about my ”bunnies!” 🐰 As for current news, I am still available, but mostly virtual sessions. I believe an outpouring of "cuddlees" will come out of the woodwork once this “Brewski” is all done and I LOVE NEW CLIENTS! I always love having new clients because it not only builds my clientele, but I get to explore

My last post was in regards to cuddling and the "Brewski", but a chick found a way to get the coin. I don't let Corona stop my coins. I had a client that made a proposal at 5:55am to cuddle with me. I had to arrive at his location by 8:30am. So, I had to hurry up and get my daughter to this sitter and ride out. I noticed that drivers all over Las Vegas and near the Strip were traveling and planes were in the air, which means, for the most part, businesses aren't letting

As you all know, the world is in a state of panic, from toilet paper being sold out to people getting stomped down in Wal-Mart. This issue has affected ALL industries, including cuddling. The Las Vegas Strip at this time is EMPTY people!! So, let's talk about Corona and coins. This set up or virus is designed for minimal contact so most would think cuddling is out the window....I think not! Here are some tips to still make coins during this panic: 1. Offer a Discount

In continuation of the blog I created last night about younger "possible" clients starting drama and being cheap, the drama began as soon...